Guide to Gratuity

The General Guideline

Tipping your wedding staff and vendors is a thoughtful gesture to show appreciation for their hard work and dedication to making your special day memorable. While tipping is optional and should be based on your satisfaction and budget, it’s generally a good practice to acknowledge those who have contributed to your wedding's success. Here's a guide to help you navigate the tipping process.

Understand Who to Tip

The general rule of thumb is to consider those who are providing service on your wedding day. Service staff such as servers and bartenders are the most common consideration. Generally, other vendors do not expect tips although if you chose to include them in your tip budget it is always appreciated.

Define Your Team

Servers & Bartenders

10-20% of the total bill, typically equal to $50-$100 per person.

Hair & Makeup Team

10-20% of the total bill. Typically equal to $50-$100.

Officiant

If they are affiliated with a religious organization, a donation to the organization is common, For non affiliated officiants a tip is optional, but a nice gesture. Typically $50-$100. If a friend or family member is provideing officiant services then providing a personalized thank you card or gift is appropriate.

Photo & Video

Optional but appreciated. Typically $50-$200.

DJ & Musicians

Optional but appreciated. Typically $50-$200.

Floral & Decor

Optional but appreciated. Florists typically do not stay for the duration of the event so this may be more on a case by case basis. Typically $50-$100.

Wedding Planning & Coordination

Optional but appreciated. Typically $50-$200.